Saturday, 25 February 2012

Pressured by church to sign a petition...

My former Orthodox church suggested to me to join a petition against gay marriage... That's what I replied (for the record).

Could you please remove me and my children from all mailing and parish lists as we are not interested in religion any more?

Because of this I am also not interested in formalising personal relationships but as a person who has been married I feel it would be utterly unkind for me to deny this opportunity

for any other grown up people, whatever they sex or number would be. I feel the things which really matter in any relationship are freedom, love and happiness, not labels,
certificates or an opinion of absolute strangers. I am so happy I can now say freely what I have been suppressing inside for years.

I hope you will understand,


Alexandra




These is a gross mistake in the text of their petition: "Throughout history and in virtually all human societies marriage has always been the union of a man and a woman. Marriage reflects the complementary natures of men and women..." "If marriage is redefined once, what is to stop it being redefined to allow polygamy?" As far as I know, polygamy was quite common in many societies. Plus very early marriages forbidden now. Traditions can't help their case. Also funny that their petition is not on official government site. Probably wouldn't pass the standard.

The message has been forwarded from the main priest at official church mail address so the pressure on parish members to join the petition is obvious.

Anyway here is the link to an opposite petition if anybody is interested. No pressure whatsoever :)

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  1. PS. The head priest probably is a "spiritual father" for many on the mailing list and people should obey they "spiritual father"... Also wasn't there a time in Roman Empire when priest didn't allow slaves to marry? Christian values for you. Times change, they stay the same.

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  2. Plus there are stories when paralized men are not allowed to marry

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